Thursday, November 19, 2009

Self-Harm

It is vital for educators to understand the impact age has on our students because it helps us understand how the child/young adult strives and either succeeds or fails and “fitting in” to their social environment. The text mentions suicide fairly extensively. This is fitting considering the large number of young people who commit suicide every year (2,000) and the fact that is remains the third leading cause of death in teenagers (p.354). Early in my career in education, I became increasingly aware not only of the very real danger suicide is to my students, but also of the increase of cutting or self-injury. Self-injury is a way for the individual to gain control and “cope” if they have never acquired positive ways of handling stressers and grief. This is important to note, because it encompasses some of the same reasons given for suicide. “Because of their youth and lack of experience in making accurate judgments, depressed adolescents may be more prone to respond to the suggestion of suicide than an adult” (p.355). This lack of experience also influences students towards self-injury. Both of these speak to self-harm as a way of coping and dealing with the world around them. All too often adults attempt to put our rationale and ability to cope on young people and assume they possess the same skills. We need to be aware of this very real danger to young people.

4 comments:

Andrea said...

This is definitely a weighty topic. I have experience with students who cut, and it is rather discouraging that there really aren't resources (that I am aware of) to help them. I have even had a student who filed her teeth down to look like a vampire's. Obviously, this demonstrates extreme lack in judgement. It makes me wonder how, as educators, we can contribute to stopping this behavior based on the fact that kids don't always make reasonable choices. (Especially when the choices will contribute to a lifetimes of visible scars.)

Amanda said...

Strangely, I've had very little experience with students who cut. I did have a conversation with a class once about cutters, and my students relayed the preconceived notion that "cutting" was a "white kid thing." Perhaps there's some validity to that statement.

Ben Mahas said...

Andrea you are right. How are we educators supose to fix these problems that student have when their parents do not seem to care. I wonder what the parent of your student who was filing her teeth thought. If the parents are ok with this behavior then what can we do at school?

Andrea said...

Ben...the issue with this student is that her parents are there in person but that is it. both parents are alcoholics and show no interest in her or her education. (She's actually a very intelligent child but desperately seeking negative attention.) There is an elementary teacher trying to help this particular student, but she is reaching the point of frustration because the child is not receptive to the help. She continues to do what she wants to do. Parents are key, and when they're not involved with a child, it is a very difficult hurdle to oevrcome.